Recommended Books Here is a list of books I recommend to help you and your partner on a path to a healthy relationship. Not Just Friends: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity, by Dr. Shirley Glass After the Affair, by Janis Abrams Spring Rekindling Desire, by Barry McCarthy and Emily McCarthy The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, by John Gottman Loving What Is, by Byron Katie If You Loved Me, You’d Stop! by Lisa Frederiksen The Family Recovery Guide: A Map for Healthy Growth, by Stephanie Brown